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Any continuing education scholarships out there?

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I'm hoping to go to the school in the fall for a Master in Worship Arts from Liberty's online division. But, like many out there, money is tight personally and for our church. Are there are…Continue

The Non-Expressive Congregation

Started this discussion. Last reply by jeremiah adams May 11, 2010. 38 Replies

I've been leading worship at my church since July (the same time the new minister came and modern worship made it's debut at the church). The church is old-fashioned, but one thing that really is…Continue


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Home Church:
The Heights
Musical Gift(s):
vocalist, learning keyboard
About Me:
As our church began its transition to a more modern, more effective worship service, I joined the praise team and was soon asked to be worship leader. It's a new place for me, especially after I gave up music 10 years ago in a sad attempt to deal with the death of the man who raised me.

But God has been calling me back to music and paved the way for me to take part in the very important task of transition His church so it will grow. He's using this position to break down so many insecurities that have held me back for years. We have such a great Lord!
Favorite Music:
Rock, Punk, Ska
Favorite Bible Verses / Passages:
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. -- Philippians 4:13

Pure Status Quo is a Myth -- a Church Changes

For the last few weeks, one phrase has echoed in my mind like a broken record begun only to haunt my thoughts. The phrase in itself is not really the problem, it’s the context it’s used in.

It’s a phrase I’ve heard from every person who has voiced their concerns about the small changes in the church service as we transition to a more modern, more effective style of worship. Only a handful of people have come to me to express their discomfort with the changes to the church service, but each and every one of them have said to me “You don’t understand, I was married in this church.”

I’m guessing the reasoning for choosing this phrase is to explain how long they’ve been there. I love that the church has a history, after all my husband was raised in this church, but it got me thinking about my own upbringing and the changes that have occurred to the settings of my own milestones.

I was born in a small country hospital staffed with a multitude of the sweetest Catholic nuns you could ever meet. It was about 45 minutes away from my hometown, but still the closest option for childbirth (other than your house of course). During my late teenage years, the hospital was consolidated with another hospital in the area and all labors and deliveries were moved to the partner hospital. Although I thought it was sad to not have the care of nuns anymore in the nursery, I was thrilled to learn about the improvements of services and upgrades to equipment made available by consolidating and moving all services to one location.

When I started high school, I was thrilled to get to the same building my mother and brother had told me so much about. But the stay was short-lived. During my sophomore year, the former mansion was sold and we moved to a new, state-of-the art facility outside of town. I was sad to leave the old high school, but the opportunities available to us at the new school were priceless.

I came up with dozens of examples in my own life when things have evolved to keep up with the needs of the surrounding area, but none of the memories or even experiences I still have today at those locations were affected in the slightest by any of the elements that have changed.

I guess I’ve never looked at changes for the purpose of improvement as a bad thing. I grew up knowing that change was an inevitable part of life. Without change, we would still be living in caves and rubbing sticks together to make fire. Before I continue, I know there are some of you reading this thinking this example is a little extreme. I know most of you have never lived in a cave, and it’s not fair to go that far back in time. You don’t care about anyone else changing, you just would rather not change yourself. This is actually a real conversation I’ve had before. The thing is that you change every day. You get a little older, hopefully a little smarter, and you develop a deeper character. Our outsides give in to time and what’s inside is shaped by every experience we have.

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Tips for Leading Worship

Posted on March 3, 2010 at 4:29am 2 Comments

I'm still putting my house back together after last week's fire, but the light is glimmering at the end of the tunnel. We're home tonight, which means I have internet again!

No internet has been tough, but I have to admit it was kind of a nice break. Speedy and I spent a lot of quality time together without the distractions of the world wide web or the DVR. I even taught him how to mash potato and do the twist (and yes, sing the song).

I also had a lot of time to…


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At 3:37pm on March 3, 2010, Jennifer Bradshaw said…
Wow...no problem at all! I'm so glad everyone is okay!
At 5:51pm on February 24, 2010, Jennifer Bradshaw said…

I was so excited to read your post about directing the congregation. You and I sound like we are in very similar places - in life and in leading worship. Like you, I have no formal training and often feel as though I'm inventing as I go along. I seem to get it wrong (or at least it feels that way) at least as often as I get it right. I, too, feel God leading me toward getting some kind of formal training. I've looked at online programs and considered taking classes at a local university, but time and money are huge factors. (I have 4 young children!)

Our church is Lutheran and, like you, my husband grew up there. Our contemporary worship service has been around for 10 years or so and took the place of the traditional early morning service. Many people left because of this change. But just as many people stayed and became the backbone for the contemporary service. I've been leading for 6 or 7 years as a volunteer. The only paid staff at our church is the pastor, secretary, and Minister of Music. I find myself trying to learn about leading worship during my spare moments and, unfortunately, there aren't many of them.

And I couldn't agree more with your blog post about the need for the church to move forward. For Lutherans, celebrating the traditional liturgy is critical to their worship. Personally, it never appealed to me. I couldn't find God in that setting. I didn't grow up churched and the formality of the traditional service made me nervous and anxious and set up barriers between me and God. There are many people who have come through our doors and are non-Lutheran and appreciate the music and worship style of the contemporary service. I believe we can have a Lutheran praise and worship service. I just haven't figured it out, yet.

I hope we can bounce ideas of each other. Good luck finding your way. In my experience, God has always provided when there was a need. I can't wait to see where he leads us now!

At 2:53pm on December 30, 2009, Rick Cogbill said…
Hi Ivy, thanks for the friend request...sorry I took so long to answer! How's the worship leading going for you? I love the fact that you embrace change; so many people fear it even though it's really just a part of everyday life.

May the Lord bless you in your ministry in 2010!
At 4:33pm on October 23, 2009, Junjie said…
Hi, Ivy!

Welcome to Worship the Rock! Hope to see you getting involved with the discussions here. And do check out the songs the others have uploaded, lots of great stuff! :)

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